Children and Violence
Resource site developed from the course CDE 498: Children and Violence
Violence has always been a part of the human experience, manifesting in various forms such as war, child abuse, murder, and schoolyard bullying. It often impacts children, who may be innocent victims or, in some cases, perpetrators. Researchers are increasingly interested in the effects of violence on children, with psychologists, sociologists, family scientists, and educators seeking ways to prevent violence or reduce its impact. The goal is to help children lead positive and fulfilling lives.
This site offers resources for those interested in exploring topics related to children and violence. It was developed from the course "CDE 498: Children and Violence." We hope this page provides helpful access to the complex issue of children and violence.
Contact us:
Faculty Supervisor:
Denise Bodman, [email protected]
Graduate Students:
Gabrielle Murillo, [email protected]
Kyrie Dukepoo, [email protected]
Jordan Romeo, [email protected]
Lily Tran, [email protected]
Explore topics:
INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE (IPV) AND CHILDREN
HOW DOES IPV AFFECT CHILDREN?
Abuse doesn’t always leave a bruise, but it always leaves an impact. When violence occurs in the home with children to witness it, the effects can last a lifetime. When Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) begins to happen in the home, all involved are affected. Exposed kids may start to show signs of depression, anxiety, or other emotional difficulties1 that may stay with them even through adulthood. This could look like involvement with the justice system or ending up in a relationship that is like the one they grew up around.2
While these challenges can be hard and have lasting effects, they don't have to be permanent. With support from safe adults (like teachers, a parent, counselors), these kids do appear to bounce back.3 Learning about how to help those affected by IPV and sharing the information with those in your life could change the pathway of it all.
RESOURCES
FOR EVERYONE
Trauma and Child Abuse Resource Center from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent
Psychiatry
https://www.aacap.org/aacap/Families_and_Youth/Resource_Centers/Child_Abuse_Resource_Center
/Home.aspx
This is an all-inclusive resource that provides facts, video clips, clinical resources, research and training, literature, and help resources. The website is organized in sections, so it is easy to navigate and user-friendly for individuals of all background.
Intimate Partner Violence from The National Child Traumatic Stress Network
https://www.nctsn.org/what-is-child-trauma/trauma-types/intimate-partner-violence
This resource provides information on the effects, interventions, and other curated resources about intimate partner violence. The immediate reactions and long-term effects, reactions by age group, and various interventions are shared and explained.
National Domestic Violence Hotline (US), nationally published and funded through grants from US Department of Justice
and US Department of Health and Human Services
This is a resource for victims of domestic violence that provides access to help hotlines via chat, call, or text. This website could be helpful for victims who feel they do not have a support system, as they can help create safety plans and share survivor stories and statistics. (Visitors can hide their search history from the homepage and does not track data).
Intimate Partner and Family Violence from the Child Welfare Information Gateway and Children’s Bureau
https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/casework-practice/intimate-partner-and-family-violence/
This resource provides a definition, describes risk and protective factors, and gives identifiers of child abuse to those who access it. I particularly like this resource because it gives definitions as they occur or are identified by various populations (i.e various Tribes’ definitions of domestic violence and tribal codes they affect). This information could be helpful for readers who may live within these parameters.
FOR CAREGIVERS
Builiding Resiliency: How to Support Children Exposed to Violence at Home from Nationwide
Children’s
https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2019/10/how-to-
support-children-exposed-to-violence-at-home
This resource shares ways to help children’s resiliency following their exposure to IPV. There are quick simple steps that caregivers can implement, and it shares the expected outcomes as well.
Intimate Partner Violence Awareness Month: When Children are Involved from American College
of Surgeons
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-SBCROwkNM
This video is a short clip that explains the effects of IPV on children, and how to address these situations. I found this video to be informational, as it is brief but touches on important facts and shares help resources for victims at the end. It is intended for consumption during IPV Awareness Month in October, but the information is year round.
FOR PROFESSIONALS
Domestic Violence and the Classroom from JBWS Safety, Support & Solutions for Abuse
https://jbws.org/news/domestic-violence-and-the-classroom/
This resource is intended for educators, and shares the physical, emotional, psychological, and social impact of IPV on students. This resource could be helpful to educators as they navigate their student population.
Intimate Partner Violence: Supporting Children, Family Members from Healthychildren.org
This page is intended as a resource for providing pediatricians with information on how to identify and support families of those experiencing IPV. There are recommendations for these professionals that come directly from the American Academy of Pediatrics.
REFERENCES
1 Fogarty, A., Brown, S., Gartland, D., McMahon, G., FitzPatrick, K., Seymour, M., Kimber, M., MacMillan, H., & Giallo, R. (2024). Patterns of intimate partner violence exposure across the first 10 years of life and children’s emotional-behavioural outcomes at 10 Years. Child Abuse & Neglect, 153, 106814. https://doi.org/10.1016
2 Russell, K., Walld, R., Esopenko, C., Bolton, J. M., Kajankova, M., Ellis, M. J., & Afifi, T. O. (2026). Educational, judicial, and social outcomes of children exposed to intimate partner violence. Child Abuse & Neglect, 176, 108075. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2026.108075
3 Spearman, K. J., Hoppe, E., & Jagasia, E. (2023). A systematic literature review of protective factors mitigating intimate partner violence exposure on early childhood health outcomes. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 79(5), 1664–1677. https://doi.org/10.1111/jan.1563
Familicide is a tragic act where someone kills members of their own family—most often a man who takes the lives of his partner and children before ending his own life (3,6).
Though rare, these heartbreaking events have occurred in places like the U.S., Canada, and Romania (1,2,8).
Experts believe familicide may be linked to factors such as:
- A history of abuse or violence (5,7)
- Mental health challenges (5,7)
- Substance misuse (5,7)
- Relationship or financial troubles (5,7)
- Easy access to guns (5,7)
News coverage often focuses on the person who caused the harm rather than the victims and can sometimes include inaccurate information (4,6).
By learning to recognize warning signs and offering support early, we can make a real difference in preventing these tragedies and protecting families.
Additional Information:
Familicide: When Domestic Abusers Kill Their Families and Sometimes, Themselves
https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/familicide-when-domestic-abusers-kill-their-families-and-sometimes-themselves
Domestic Shelters explain familicide terms, warning signs in a partner that can lead to a familicide, and steps to take if a person is in danger.
Men Who Murder Their Families: What the Research Tells Us
https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/230412.pdf
The National Institute of Justice discusses characteristics of a person who commits familicide. This is typically men who are possessive, have access to weapons, and experience economic or family problems.
Understanding the Far-Reaching Impact of Familicide
https://news.nau.edu/understanding-far-reaching-impact-familicide/
The Northern Arizona University website explains that although familicide is rare, it heavily impacts communities. As more research is conducted on these types of crimes, the more support and knowledge we can provide to identify offenders and prevent future tragedies.
Family Violence Statistics: Including Statistics on Strangers and Acquaintances
https://bjs.ojp.gov/content/pub/pdf/fvs03.pdf
The U.S. Department of Justice provides an overview of data on family violence within the United States, including information on familicide.
The Economic Factor in the Rash of Murder-Suicides
https://www.psychologytoday.com/nz/blog/crimes-of-violence/201009/the-economic-factor-in-the-rash-of-murder-suicides
Psychology Today discusses that economic factors, especially after the 2008 recession, have played a significant part in familicide and murder-suicide cases.
References
- Armeanu, A. (2020). Familicide: Psychological and social characteristics of the aggressors. A case study. In Proceedings of the 19th International RAIS Conference on Social Sciences and Humanities (pp. 200-206). Scientia Moralitas Research Institute. https://zenodo.org/records/4268802
- Chen, D. (2024). ‘Familicide’ very rarely happens without warning signs, say domestic violence researchers. CBC News. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/windsor/familicide-domestic-violence-murder-suicide-walsh-harrow-1.7259570
- Diaz, M. L., Toohy, K., Fernandez, K., Huff-Corzine, L., & Reckdenwald, A. (2022). Out of sight, out of mind: An analysis of family mass murder offenders in the US, 2006-2017. Journal of Mass Violence Research, 1(1), 25-43. https://doi.org/10.53076/JMVR82831
- Galvin, A., Quinn, F., & Cleary, Y. (2023). Shaping the ‘inexplicable’: A social constructionist analysis of news reporting of familicide-suicide. Journalism, 24(7). https://doi.org/10.1177/14648849211063265
- Johnson, C. H. (2023). Familicide as a form of abuse. In Parveen, A. & Rogers, M. M. (Eds.), Gender-Based Violence: A Comprehensive Guide (pp. 153-165). Springer. https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Sadiq-Bhanbhro-2/publication/371233864_Honour_Crimes/links/647f3e30b3dfd73b77688d3f/Honour-Crimes.pdf
- Liem, M., Levin, J., Holland, C., & Fox, J. A. (2013). The nature and prevalence of familicide in the United States, 2000–2009. Journal of Family Violence, 28(4), 351–358. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-013-9504-2
- Mailloux, S. (2014). Fatal families: Why children are killed in familicide occurrences. Journal of Family Violence, 29(8), 921–926. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-014-9643-0
- Romero, D. (2025). Family of 4, including a 7-month old and a 6-year-old, dead in Montana murder-suicide. NBC News. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/family-4-7-month-old-6-year-old-dead-montana-murder-suicide-rcna206391
Compiled by Angeline Kumar, April 2026
Stop it! Let me go! Arguments between parents and children happen all the time, but sometimes, it can turn into violence. Child abuse affects a child’s self-esteem, emotions, and their safety1. It usually happens when parents feel overwhelmed by stress, or struggle to control their anger2. However, there’s good news and change is possible! Parents can enroll in programs to learn how to handle arguments and manage anger in healthier ways3. Every child deserves to feel loved and safe.
1Zeanah, H. C., & Humphreys, L. K. (2018). Child abuse and neglect. Journal of the American Academy of Child Abuse & Psychiatry, 57(9), 637-644. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jaac.2018.06.007
2Pelton, L. (2015). The continuing role of material factors in child maltreatment and placement. Child & Neglect, 41, 30-39. https://dx.doi.org/10.
3Bugental, B. D., Ellerson, C. P., Rainey, B., Lin, E., Kokotovic, A., & O’Hara, N. (2002). A cognitive approach to child abuse prevention. Journal of Family Psychology, 16 (3), 243-258. https://doi.org/10.1037//0893-32
Web Sources and Summary
- National Children’s Alliance. https://www.nationalchildrensalliance.org/
This website advocates for children by trained advocates and professionals. They provide in person or over the phone resources and services for every child by what county you live in.
- Zero Abuse Project. https://zeroabuseproject.org/
The website provides free links to child abuse training and classes for parents and adults by a qualified teacher. Their focus is on ways to protect children from abuse and sexual abuse through education and training.
- Childhelp National Abuse Hotline https://www.childhelphotline.org/
This hotline provides free, confidential help for children and adults who are experiencing or reporting child abuse. You can call or text trained counselors anytime to get support and find local resources.
This website provides a hotline for adults and children to get help for suspected or reporting child abuse. Call to get experienced counselors who can guide you to local agencies for support. They also offer child abuse safety and prevention training for adults
Administration for Children & Families Hotlines and Helplines. https://acf.gov/acf-hotlines-helplines
This website provides national hotlines for children, youth and adults. They provide hotline numbers for child abuse, youth runaways, and domestic violence. You can get connected to trained counselors, who can provide support and resources you need.
Spanking and Corporal Punishment
One of the most talked-about parenting topics is spanking, also called corporal punishment. For many years, researchers have studied spanking and how it affects kids. What the research shows is that spanking hurts brain development.
Spanking can cause:
- Increased aggression (4)
- Problems in school (4)
- A higher chance of mental health issues (1)
- Future drug and alcohol abuse (1)
- Violence in future relationships (6)
Children who are spanked less do better overall, especially when their parents are warm and loving (2). Stress can make it hard for parents to stay calm when dealing with their children’s behavior (5). Parenting classes and community groups can be helpful. This can help parents feel like they are not alone and more likely to use positive ways to guide their children (3). It’s easier to not spank when friends, family, and neighbors agree that spanking is harmful (3). The good news is that it’s never too late for parents to try new ways of guiding their children. Making these changes can create healthier, happier families.
Additional Resources for Parents:
Zero to Three
https://www.zerotothree.org/resources/positive-parenting/
Zero to Three covers a wide range of topics and serves as a valuable resource for positive parenting, including specific strategies, their benefits, and practical tips for managing stress.
CDC – Positive Parenting Tips
The CDC offers positive parenting tips for different age groups and information about child development, safety, and health.
https://www.cdc.gov/child-development/positive-parenting-tips/index.html
Healthy Children – American Academy of Pediatrics
https://www.healthychildren.org
The AAP parenting website provides practical information for parents about managing their children’s behavior and summarizes some of the research about spanking and its effects on development.
Harvard’s Center on the Developing Child
https://developingchild.harvard.edu/
The Center on the Developing Child offers resources about the science of child development, child mental health, and stress and resilience.
National Initiative to End Corporal Punishment
https://www.endphysicalpunishment.org/
The NIECP website includes insights into the research surrounding the effects of spanking, along with effective and culturally sensitive strategies for managing challenging behaviors.
References
Afifi, T., Ford, D., Gershoff, E., Merrick, M., Grogan-Kaylor, A., Ports, K., MacMillan, H., Holden, G., Taylor, C., Lee, S., & Bennett, R.P. (2017). Spanking and adult mental health impairment: The case for the designation of spanking as an adverse childhood experience. Child Abuse & Neglect, 71, 24-31. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2017.01.014.
Alampay L. P., Godwin, J., Lansford, J. E., Bombi, A. S., Bornstein, M. H., Chang, L., Kirby, D.-D., Giunta, L. D., Dodge, K. A., Malone, P. S., Oburu, P., Pastorelli Concetta, Skinner, A. T., Sorbring Emma, Tapanya Sombat, Tirado Liliana M Uribe, Zelli Arnaldo, Al-Hassan, S. M., & Bacchini Dario. (2017). Severity and justness do not moderate the relation between corporal punishment and negative child outcomes. International Journal of Behavioral Development, 41(4), 491–502. https://doi.org/10.1177/0165025417697852
Fleckman, J.M., Taylor, C.A., Theall, K.P., Andrinopoulos, K. (2018). Perceived social norms in the neighborhood context: The role of perceived collective efficacy in moderating the relation between perceived injunctive norms and use of corporal punishment. Child Adolescent Social Work Journal 36, 29–41. https://doi.org.ezproxy1.lib.asu.edu/10.1007/s10560-018-0581-1
Gershoff, E. T., Lansford, J. E., Sexton, H. R., Davis-Kean, P., & Sameroff, A. J. (2012). Longitudinal links between spanking and children’s externalizing behaviors in a national sample of White, Black, Hispanic, and Asian American families. Child Development, 83(3), 838–843. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2011.01732.x
MacKenzie, M. J., Nicklas, E., Brooks-Gunn, J., & Waldfogel, J. (2011). Who spanks infants and toddlers? Evidence from the fragile families and child well-being study. Children and Youth Services Review, 33(8), 1364–1373. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.childyouth.2011.04.007
Temple, J. R., Choi, H. J., Reuter, T., Wolfe, D., Taylor, C. A., Madigan, S., & Scott, L. E. (2018). Childhood corporal punishment and future perpetration of physical dating violence. The Journal of Pediatrics, 194, 233–237. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpeds.2017.10.028